The meanest thing that I can recall being said, wasn't to me, but was said about me. While I was pregnant with Bruce somebody told someone else (someone that was closer to me than the other person) that they knew they would probablly have to call DFS on me because I would be a horrible mother. I found that out when he was 4 months old. I also found out that the same person kept threatening me with calling DFS on me, but they had no reason. I took care of Bruce pretty much by myself until he was 18 months old. I didn't work his first 11 months, and then I worked full time and paid for everything on my own without any help. I got a better job that paid more also and did it all while living on my own and working from 11:00 am to 8:00 pm 5 days a week just to provide. I kept the house clean, I cooked food (most of the time, sometimes we just ate cereal) and I paid all of the bills that needed paid. I was very distrought by the fact that somebody (2 people actually) wanted me to fail as a mother and a person, but I got over it, prayed for them and made my peace.
Now I have two wonderful boys who are healthy and very intelligent and I get to be a stay at home mother for now. I also cook and clean and plan everything for all 4 of us and we are happy and better than ever!
It just goes to show you that sometimes (not always though) age doesn't matter!
God Bless!
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